Dude, I’m not flaming you. And I do understand you. Did you think I’ve played this game for more than 5 years because I don’t like it?
Believe it or not, I’m trying to help. I’m not trying to help the game or Funcom, I’m trying to help you. And I’m doing it out of good intentions.
Being passionate about the game is nice. But I’m speaking from personal experience when I try to tell you that it can be bad for you to get too worked up about it.
All that I’ve been trying to say is that it’s been years of behavior like this from Funcom. They have been treating the players this way since I joined the forums. They have promised to improve their communication countless times, and it’s still like this.
It’s like being stuck in an abusive relationship. It took me a while to figure out that they’re not going to change “for me”, no matter how often they promise that this time it’ll be better. I’m trying to help you realize the same thing 
That right there is my point. Yes, it used to be frustrating. Now I don’t really care that much anymore. When someone demonstrates that they really won’t change, there are two things you can do: either learn to accept them as they are, or move on.
These days, I play Conan Exiles if I’m having fun with it. If it’s not fun, I don’t play it, I go do something else. Same thing with the forums: I post suggestions and replies because I feel like it, but I’ve stopped expecting Funcom to do anything about it. Occasionally they’ll do something that I wished or hoped for, and I’ll go see if I actually enjoy it.
To someone who is as passionate about this game as you are, this all probably sounds bitter, jaded, even defeated, but it really isn’t. It’s just an acceptance of a reality that didn’t live up to my wishes 
I hope this helps you understand my motives. 