Can't log onto server

Game mode: [Online | Singleplayer]
Problem: [Crash | Bug | Performance | Misc]
Region: [Here]

i play on a private server with several RL friends. But now whenever I try to play on it, I get a Memory could not be written error and the game crashes.

Ive check conans files, twice, ive shut off everything starting on startup, ive also increased the size of my virtual memory… Still does it.

I can log on to any other server and play fine, but not this one. Why??
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