I gave your modlist a quick glance and noticed several mods are out of date since June of last year. At least one hasn’t been updated since 2022. Not every mod needs to always be updated, but the longer they go without a recook, the more updated features they miss and can start to do weird things.

The modlist is also pretty chonky, and while I don’t believe there is a total memory limit and you can pretty much run as many mods as you’d like. You might be finding some loading issues if its overly large. I know on one server I was on, they had to reduce the total amount of mods so some people could actually login, they would timeout while trying to connect.

If you are the server owner, I could suggest doing a temp wipe as a test. Basically move your game.db out and run the server with a fresh one. Login and see if you can create a character normally. Also take the game.db and load it into singleplayer and load it up to see if your model isn’t loading in.

If you’re not, the only troubleshooting step I can think of is to recreate character and see if the problem persists.

I’m a bit troubled at the idea the server restarts twice a day. I’m curious to why. Fresh servers only need to restart twice a week. Older servers maybe once every 2 days, with heavy servers being once a day (heavy being 70/70 or more during primetime and a good set of mods).