Hey there @Mirasstone,
Xbox is well patched by now, just look at the right subforum.
You are also able to find notices and patch notes at 
Upcoming features on the Official Conan Exiles Wiki pretty soon after something’s released.
Here’s some ideas from people in the discord on why Conan Exiles would be better than Ark (had to squish it a little):
The discord may be found here. If you want more insights you may ask for them here;