Grymm
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Why? I personally would just make sure I had the server rules in place. Any player has to accept them to join the server. And then I can use a mod like PIPPI to periodically check for nonsense going on and clear it. Takes hardly any time.
BUT, I do get you the moment a player has kids thrown into the mix. Nothing like a little two year old reaching up, ‘wanting attention’ and grabbing the keyboard mid-wipe. 
(have cheated a little and pulled in one fo the older ankle-biters to do cursory checks on how players have been building before I have to be involved so I can just enjoy the game playing.)
I set aside half an hour or so on a weekend when I can do some proper chastisement if necessary. My regular players don’t mess about so I only need to check on new players.