lol if only it was that easy, i did end up fixing the issue thou the fix was fixing the age of my server as well as some purge settings
what i did was i took the game.db file from my server and put it into my singleplayer save location located at
C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Conan Exiles\ConanSandbox\Saved
and then i put the text below into a .bat file in there and launched it after the bat file finished everything up i closed it all down and took the same game.db file i just put in my single player save and uploaded it back to my server
[for the bat file copy the text make a new note doc paste it into the note pad and save the file as ServerCleanup.bat]
@echo off
set db_file=“game.db”
if NOT exist %db_file% (
echo No game.db file in this directory!
PAUSE
EXIT /B
)
echo Cleaning up %db_file%…
call :deleteFrom buildings
call :deleteFrom building_instances
call :deleteFrom buildable_health
call :deleteFrom static_buildables
echo - Deleting non-feat data
sqlite3.exe %db_file% “DELETE FROM item_properties WHERE item_properties.inv_type != 6 AND item_properties.inv_type != 7 AND item_properties.inv_type != 3;”
sqlite3.exe %db_file% “DELETE FROM item_inventory WHERE item_inventory.inv_type != 6 AND item_inventory.inv_type != 7 AND item_inventory.inv_type != 3;”
echo - Deleting non-character data
FOR /F “tokens=* USEBACKQ” %%F IN (`sqlite3.exe %db_file% "select id from actor_position where id not in (select id from characters);"`) DO (
sqlite3.exe %db_file% “DELETE FROM properties WHERE properties.object_id = %%F;”
sqlite3.exe %db_file% “DELETE FROM actor_position WHERE actor_position.id = %%F;”
)
EXIT /B
:deleteFrom
echo - Deleting %1%
sqlite3.exe %db_file% “DELETE FROM %1%;”
goto:EOF
and then go into the serversettings.ini and make sure these 2 settings are like this
ClanPurgeTrigger = 15000
ClanScoreUpdateFrequency = 10
if not edit them or add them in