Logged into game.
Purge had happened while I was Offline and lost far too much to care for this anymore.
I was preparred I feel but obviously not enough.
This game is ridiculous so time to stop and Funcom will you be refunding me the purchase of this game?
Regards
You want a refund because the game beat you?
“I was preparred I feel but obviously not enough.”
Video games in a nutshell! Trial and error. 
I’m sorry to hear that you lost a lot during the purge. If you feel it was too strong for your defenses, you can always go down south or go to a private server with purge settings more to your liking. You can also read more here that may help with preparing for it:
https://conanexiles.gamepedia.com/The_Purge
If you are certain you’d like a refund, you’ll need to contact the retailer you purchased it from.