likable isn’t the issue, actually being understood is.

Then just what is the point? The point of writing in a forum is to be understood. If you don’t care if you’re understood why waste your time writing it or our time trying to read it?

No actually it doesn’t, not sure why you don’t get that.
If you want to be heard you need to be understood. If your first sentence looks like alphabet soup no one is going to try to muddle through it to see your point. What good is offering up your honest opinion if no one reads past the first sentence?
How can anyone address your point if no one knows what it is?