[XBOX] Looking for laid back casual RP server

Not new to Conan but I haven’t played it in a while and am looking to jump back in. I am a stay at home mom so since I don’t have a lot of time to play I am looking for something more casual, where RP isn’t strictly enforced but encouraged. Preferably a server that has building damage turned off since I won’t be able to log on every day and would hate to come in only to find my whole base has been wiped. So maybe PVE-C or PVP with no building damage or whatever. Also no big alpha clans would be preferable as well.

You can contact me here or on discord at SleepyAgent#5944 or on Xbox.
My gamertag is SleepyAgentZero