Xbox One, Rented Server, Post update

We rent a server and are also having a large series of issues since the update. We sent in a ticket to gportal and their response was to just try. Yet nothing has changed.
About a week ago a server popped up with the same name as ours. Yesterday they upped their player slots to 40 just like ours was as well. The only way to tell the difference is by the region. This was of no real issue to us until the update itself.
We put in a ticket for a server wipe and gportal complied. Apparently the other server had as well. Then we recieved a second wipe. Then two more to follow. Thats a total of 4 server wipes in one day.
Still we were all fine as we hadnt made much progress anyway. But now regardless of which server you click on they both come to our server.

The server menu itself averages about 5 minutes to load in.

The tools for each religion now give you nothing when trying to harvest bodies.
If you look to the side while running you have unlimited stamina.
After you die and respawn you only have half health.
The decay is acting up and is demolishing bases even if youre only away for a few moments regardless of how much we mess with the settings.
Once placing items on a weapon rack you cant visually see them on it, only see it in the inventory.
Our purge meters wont fill up keeping us from experiencing that at all.
If the decay is cut off no one is able to damage buildings.
Parts of people’s bases are completely disappearing.
Hatch ladders will not place.
Wall signs will not save.

We’ve tried resets. Nothing is helping

I will also add that the war paint id able to be crafted but nothing else.

We are unable to ban people. We can click the button but nothing else. They are still on our server. This is very problematic.