Kicked from server when logging in if friend is already on server

Game mode: Online
Problem: Crash
Region: US

When my friend is on a server (both official and unofficial) I am kicked within 10 to 15 seconds of logging into that server. If he gets off i can connect and play with no problem. If i am on he can’t stay logged in more than 10 to 15 seconds until i log off. When we keep getting kicked trying to log onto the same server we can get on a different server that the other isn’t on just fine. we’ve tested it multiple times and i don’t know how, but Conan will not let us play on the same server. How can we fix this? (We are in different homes with different modems)

Steps on how to reproduce issue:
1.log on
2.friend already be on server

I still have this issue after the recent update.

We have had this happen a few times on our private gportal server. Where if I am on one of the other players joins and then crashes to dashboard. If they are on I crash to dashboard. It appears to be a networking problem of some kind. Restarting the server has worked to resolve this (except for once) but it’s a headache for sure.