There’s a lot on here that I can’t speak for, having never used them, but this order worked for me with the ones from this list that I have used:
ModControlPanel
Pippi (or Pippi first then ModControlPanel - pretty sure I’ve used it both ways)
Better Thralls
Thrall Sidekick
Fashionist
Savage Steel (so Savage Steel II is probably good around here too - maybe check their page in case one needs to be first)
Glass Constructions and More
Emberlight (I’ve only used GCAM or Emberlight, not together, so may need to be the other way round)
Pythagoras (I use the support beams, but I believe the placement applies with the main mod as well)
LBPR Additional Features
LBPR Fish and Shell Trap Bug Fix
LBPR
Pickup+
Kerozards Paragon Levelling (Multigun) - (again, I haven’t used these last two together, only separately)
As for the others, I can’t say for sure (though I’d guess that eg Dude’s Delightful would probably be good somewhere around the same area as Savage Steel). I do know that the LBPR set need to be in that order - if you check the mod page on the workshop you’ll find clear instructions on that - and all mods that ‘modify or create new buildings, placeables, pets or thralls’ need to be above Pythagoras or LBPR - so that probably applies to most of the rest of your list. I’d imagine AoC probably needs to be as low in the list as possible within that restriction to give it priority over as many of the others as possible, but I haven’t tried it yet, so may be completely wrong on that.
