Hey there,
First, I’ll send you a link to a place that’ll be useful if you have any questions.
Now, you are able to rent a server from G-portal (which also hosts the Official servers) or another host (I don’t have a list but they can be easily searched). Which you prefer depends on the plan, prices and support (the latter you’ll find out eventually)
Once you’ve gotten a server, the Conan Exiles Dedicated Server Launcher (Official Version: 1.7.2 / Beta: ----) is really helpful to have. You may ask any questions about this to Toolguy in the linked thread.
If you take the launcher, this’ll be easy. It’ll take a default, unless you decide to set it otherwise.
It should show up, but I think there’s a tickbox somewhere.
Once you’re set up and ready to go, nudity, like many other things, can be adjusted in the server settings:
Note that there’s client/server differences in what you see/what others see. (This is noted down on Conan Exiles - Official Conan Exiles Wiki)
Lastly, from there, the Server Configuration page contains some helpful links. Don’t forget to check the see also’s.