Greetings ankhlaigh!
Thank you for reaching out to us and our apologies for the delay.
Situations like yours may occur due to the usage of Mods in your game. As such, we suggest that you uninstall your Mods completely in order to see if your game returns to normal.
Additionally, please verify your files by going to your Conan Exiles on Steam → right click it and go to ‘‘Properties’’ → Installed Files → and click to ‘‘Verify integrity of game files’’.
Alternatively, due to the fact that your issue is related to a private server, we would advise you to join the Admins United discord (also referred on: Admins United: Conan - Discord for Server Admins! ) as this discord includes other admins with the experience to better assist you.
Continue conquering the lands!