Hello, I have recently purchased the game for my wife. We have been trying to play together but with no success. We are both able to load into our own singleplayer worlds, but when either of us tries to join the other person, the game simply loads for about 10 minutes and then gives a “Pending connection error” message.
I have done the recommended port forwards and we have also tried disabling all mods. I have also done a full reinstall. Searching the web for this issue reveals many other people with a similar problem but I have not seen a consistent solution anywhere.
Any advice or help is greatly appreciated.