Exiled land servers

I play on #3500 pve and the lag is so bad . Don’t blame my flipping net i do not lag in any other game. 6 people on server should not be the reason for lag. I enjoy playing but it’s really hard to when you rubber-band . I lost all equipment due to lag . Thought it was my end till i rebooted my modem and tested speeds and my speeds are great . Not sure what to do to do because I don’t wanna abandon the server . I feel like the servers need something though to sort out the lag.