We are getting several reports of other players having similar issues to you. Can you please email in at https://www.funcom.com/help/ so that we can more directly assist you.
Having the same exact issue as well as several guild mates.
“Failed to join requested game”
It is a dedicated server that I admin and it is indeed up and running. It shows on the server list in Steam, allows you to connect and enter PW then it throws the error message at the in-game menu.
i am having the extact problem and when i emailed them they just send to post it on the forums, its been happening for months now it makes the game unplayable