I got past where I was stuck. I thought the line where I was rude to Freya was optional. Like “so the mighty warrior won’t be joining me and I go alone”. I thought that was mean since her husband just got kidnapped or whatever.
So I opted for goodbye rather than kicking her while she was down.
I was still able to go to Stormwatch and collect everything. But when I went back to her nothing advanced.
Turns out you need to be a jerk 
So once I picked the line about the mighty hero not joining me and the rest of the options, I again collected everything at Stormwatch and could now advance the quest line when I next talked to her.
So I guess the lesson is be a jerk 