Yeah, no. Screw that guy and screw his server. You might be better off moving to another server. It might be a lot of work to get re-established, but you would probably enjoy it a lot more to have space to build and a nicer community.
I can’t recommend an official server right now, because I’m not very active on any of them. I know two pretty nice private servers, though. Larathiel’s Valley of Doom is a really nice PVE server, with great community and an active, helpful admin. Croozi’s West Coast PVE-C has a nice crowd and it’s fun if you don’t mind Age of Calamitous.