I am sure I am not the ONLY one with this problem. I was able to join a single player server. When I try to join ANY server online, mod or no mod it IMMEDIATELY stops responding and I have to restart the computer to close down the game.
I just wanted to play, preferably with mods. Any ideas?? Oh, I wish there was a server that still had the nudity and sexiles option. SIGH… They always find a way to ruin a good thing.