I have played on a lot of servers. These days I’m exclusively on private servers. I’ve seen a lot of good servers shut down in the past few weeks over population issues. The complaints people have vary as much as they do on this forum. The simplest solution is to add auto downloading of mods. There are already mods out that fix a number of issues.
If you could add this one feature it would go a very long way in allowing the modding community to resolve issues that Funcom may not have time for.