Private servers/Official Server Lost connection to host please try again later/Pending connection

Game mode: [Online | Singleplayer]
Problem: [Crash | Bug | Performance | Misc]
Region: [Europe]

[When ever I try join a private server “iron islands” it gives me a message saying “pending connection to host” or when I try join . Via friend it says “ failed to join requested game” I’ve been trying for over a week and nothing please help me out ]

Steps on how to reproduce issue:
1.log on Conan exiles
2.filter internet search “iron islands”
3.join the server
4.”Pending connection to host” lost connection to host

A post was merged into an existing topic: Pending connection failure, Ps4 5/26/2019