Known issue for almost a year.
https://forums.funcom.com/t/connectivity-issues-after-fls-update-feedback-thread
Basically when you go to join a server is DDoS’es your local network. We’ve had to spend hundreds to keep our hosted servers separated from our home network so people in the house can actually play Conan without disconnecting everyone that’s trying to play on our servers because of this issue.
Funcom doesn’t care. They keep ignoring reports on it. The reason it’s not reported as much anymore is because everyone noticing it has basically quit the game.