I don’t understand, just don’t understand why someone has reworked the system so that when the COMMAND menu item appears, it blocks the USE menu and makes it impossible to use.
It does not make sense.
This could be done the other way, block the COMMAND menu if we try to USE any object. At least in this way, the follower could be ordered to stop following the player. In Testlive Patch (11.04.2020) - Followers II Rev.1 it was supposed to work like this.
Note: It is possible that I approach the matter too emotionally 
(especially in the first post of this topic), maybe even aggressively 
in some way, for which I am apologize to everyone 
. It is important for me that the controller works properly and comfortably.