If you wanted to make a post to complain about everyone complaining you could have just done that XD
Anyway.
I’m emotionally mature enough to accept defeat if I don’t have the skills or didn’t prepare. I would know also being a mature PVPer 
But, it really isn’t as simple or black and white as you put it. Trust me when I say I wish it was just a bunch of entitled brats.
Here’s some food for thought.