You kind of misrepresented one of the first things I said and it seems to have triggered you. That wasn’t the intention but you do you .
I said “PVP can be brutal” you said “PVP is brutal”. I’m not sure what Mortal Combat has to do with it. I feel the pain of a trashed base, that took hours if not days, a lot more than a lost 2 minute bout in a fighting game. I’m not really getting the nuance of your point, perhaps it’s lost in the capitals somewhere.
Nonetheless, what you describe about alphas on mountain tops wiping everyone just isn’t always the case. In fact, usually its a zerg clan migrating into a server for just that purpose, in my experience
The alpha on the mountaintop doesn’t want to raid levellers if they have any sense, and some do have sense, because they have invested time in that server and don’t wish to see it become dead. Some will have seen that play out before.leading to ghost towns. Many alpha’s actively defend low level players from the sort of toxicity you lay at their door.
I feel like you’ve had very specific experiences, and I’m not devaluing that, but I’m simply saying that your experiences are not everyone’s experiences. I’ve seen things play out in many very different ways.
Irrespective of how fair or unfair PVP is, I’m sure most people would rather win or lose within the confines of the intended play, and not due to under-meshing / duping and generally cheating, and not due to poor balance that undermines the rest of the gameplay.
To give you a first hand account, I recently started on an official. The alpha there was friendly, and a number of the clans welcomed us. There are a few more toxic outliers but generally people there see PVP as an option and diplomacy as another option.
Tonight I found out about the duping bug. I left Conan last time because of the bomb dupe bug that lasted for 2 months, and I was shocked to find another one happening on my return. That is what made me quit then, and that is what will make me quit now. It’s the same for the rest of my clan. We don’t want to play under those “cheat or be cheated” terms.
Us PVPers, we can be a hardy bunch. A bit of toxicity, and destroyed base, and raided stash, we can roll with those punches because its what we signed up for and we have some resilience (at least those who stick with it- fools we may be), but the cheating, exploits and balance, is what ruins the game for many of us.