Hey there, you’re not bothering me 
Your playstyle and preferences are super important for you.
My builds are based on PVP minmaxing. So focus on doing max damage and micromanaging stamina with buffs and potions. Mind you it has been months since I’ve been on PVP, but I’ve brought over these builds to a PVE server I’ve been visiting with great success. Keep in mind that the majority of playing vanilla PVP is PVE.
If I am:
• simply running through a dungeon I’ll go SAV 20/20/20 picking second skin and berserker, precision strike and rolling thrust (I should pick but instead I like to jump around with extended), fast healer and depending on how I’m feeling last stand or glutton (but last stand does a good job most of the time).
• farming dungeons I’ll go AVE 20/20/20 precision and rolling, fast healer and last stand, efficient and beast.
With either of these builds I’m clearing 700 HP and 120 stam without armor. I use light armors that focus on str/ag damage, health and stamina. Then add on food and potions to increase either the str/ag weapon, depending on what I am using. I like 2 handed hammers (always been my fav). I munch on religious feasts to regen stam - yog is still easiest to make. That is, as long as the bug that removes your buffs doesn’t get overwritten by consuming food -_-
IMO thralls are a burden, get in the way all the time, even with DBNO I still have to micromanage the hell out of them. So I haven’t played consistently with followers since the nerf.
For me, grit is useless but I’ve heard it is ok on PVE. Authority is wasted points for me too.
If you want more defense going all heavy armor can help but you have to be careful with the weight if you’re going SAV.
All of the bosses are static. There’s nothing special about them, they perform the same predictable moves; it’s really about being patient and having quick reflexes.
You can do all the dungeons naked. I’ve never done it myself but I can see how easy it would be. Been a year since Cero posted this but it’s still pretty similar.