You do great work, by the way! I personally would have moved on from Conan to other games, if it weren’t for the modding community. Unlock+ I depend on every day. I love Fashionist, but desperately want Funcom to make it obsolete, by allowing us to craft armor with customizable temps and attribs - but not sure that will ever happen. Fashionist is literally the only way we can wear what we need and look good doing it.
Now to the OP:
My own PvE modded server, with mods designed to improve QoL and extend playability. Lots of building mods and some placable additions. Nothing immersion breaking, but rather immersion enhancing.
Server settings half the harvest, but also craft times reduced and craft resourced cut in half. Land claim is minimal, to allow trees and resources continue populating close to buildings. Stam is upgraded to last longer, but PvE common content is upgraded to fight harder.
I have a mod to reduce boss HP, to make solo hunting less time consuming, but still challenging.
Server is just me, some family and a couple friends from here. I do it as TestLive for the excitement of being first in line for all the new goodies, but also to help find bugs and potential game play issues, before it rolls to the masses.
Asheron is the server and anyone is welcome to join.
In regards to Admin power abuse - I can see how private server admins could do so, but it isn’t always that way. Some of us have been around games long enough to learn a little self control. Cheating and abusing are the quickest way to end everyone’s fun. I’ve done it before and the game just felt hollow ever since.
I could do all of this solo and not spend the money on my own server, but I love having other people to chat with and see what amazing bases and building styles everyone can create. Running around the map with only my buildings is boring. Running around and seeing all kinds of new camps popping up makes the game feel so alive.
I could join another private modded server, but I really like my mod choices and have done a lot of work picking mods that help build the world to my vision. I’ve added some on my player’s recommendations and am pleased with he results.
The biggest reason I just can’t do official servers (besides the fact I love the mod content) is the decay. I’ve lost everything more than once, due to my inability to log in every week. If I can’t take a vacation from a game without losing it all, then that game isn’t for me. I’d actually quit Conan for several months because of this. Came back and decided to do it my way.
Now on my server, if a player takes a vacation, everything stays. If the server ever gets moderately crowded, I’ll start removing player assets from those that have been gone the longest.
One thing I wish they would do in Conan, is an RNG decay rate on each building piece, then based in the damage state, a different skin to show the damage. Wurm Online is another game I played and when you travel around through old decaying building sites, seeing once beautiful structures with crack in the walls, moss growing on them. Stone blocks missing… it is amazing. Just by looking at it, you know someone has moved on. Conan is there one day and vanished the next.
I’m pretty much rambling now…