If you plan on doing sit me fighting, I’d say minimum 30 vitality to get passive health regen.
I’ll try to give you a balanced build based on the fact that your in single player.
The rest in strength
This is what I would roll in if I was just wandering around doing basic gameplay. It’s fairly balanced and would work well.
Now, don’t forget your armor will add points to certain stats as well, so you can always rebalance based on what you wear.
If your going farming,
20 survival (30 if going after animals)
Balance in vitality and grit
Ha just kidding. I’m not revealing my pvp build but base it on how you like to fight. Strength, vitality and grit are important but it matters as to what armor and weapons you use. Ultimately, experiment and find what fits your play style!